So yes, here's the question. Why do some guys befriend a girl simply because they think she's attractive / interesting / nice / whatever other reasons with the intention of hoping that maybe there is a chance for something?
And then somewhere down the road, they found a girlfriend and then because now they've got someone, they can now throw that friendship they had with that girl because what, she is useless now? There is no point in staying friends? Or they're too occupied with their new found love that this friendship means nothing anymore?
(Okay as I'm typing now, the hourly maid kinda scared me because she suddenly appeared OUTSIDE my window. -__-)
So yea and then they just decide to ignore her and not talk to her because what, they're in a relationship now. Right, that is a very nice thing to do.
Or or or...they thought they could have a chance with the girl but then she said no and then there goes the friendship. They're not gonna talk to her anymore because there is no CHANCE. Nope, not even gonna stay friends although the friendship before was just great.
Or another type is they said they're going to stay friends with you, don't wanna loose this friendship because it apparently means a lot and what not and everything that they did was JUST SO the friendship could be retained. And then surprise surprise, they ask you out JUST because they wanna tell you that they've found someone and then you don't hear anymore from them. NOTHING at all. This friendship MEANS A LOT? Who are you kidding, seriously.
In the end its just the issue of sincerity. How sincere are you when you befriend someone?
Okay yes, this is only applicable to some people. And this is just a rant on my own as well as my dear friend's behalf.
Have you ever loved
and lost somebody?
Yea, I have.
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